Monday, December 12, 2011

Loving the Holidays

This is such a fun time of year. Especially with an immaginitive and creative 4 year old. She wants to decorate everything. And I am so stinkin' bummed that I feel like I can't enjoy it to the fullest. It's so hard not to just want to sit around and wish away the next 4 weeks of my life. So, I am trying to savor as much Hawaiian Christmas as I can...cause I'm pretty sure it's going to be our one and only.



I'm so thankful for Tiny Tots. The kids have loved going to this program, and the Mom's there are so helpful and understanding and sweet to keep an eye on my kids while I sit in a chair with my foot propped up. They sure had fun today, making Christmas decorations, eating chocolate and just running around with good friends.






This little guy had slipped and fallen a good 5 or so times today. I kept telling him to take off his slippery shoes. He didn't listen, and this was the only time it hurt.





They also shared their cookie exchange with us....even though I didn't bring anything to contribute. I didn't realize today was the day. Though something tells me, I may have not brought anything anyway even if I had known.



I'm so sad that Wednesday will be our last day together. I hope it starts up again quickly!!!! Horray for Tiny Tots!!!!

Thursday, December 8, 2011

While at a baby sitters....

Bless my friends for watching my kids daily for the past 8 days of my life. My friend, who weeks ago had a baby, just sent me this text, 'Eden says, "Eww, what is she doing? Biting your nipples?" I'm still laughing.

What makes a perfect day after Thanksgiving Day?

A morning in a pool to ourselves, showing each other our fancy tricks....









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And an afternoon with a 3D movie theater nearly to ourselves. I'd say Happy Feet 2 is the perfect movie for a 2 year old. Just as Tex would get restless, a fun song would come on and grab his interest again.








It was so cute to watch the kids trying to pop the bubbles in the air after the movie was over, and having fun running up and down the stairs dancing to the music. Especially when they ran all the way to the bottom holding hands. Sure wish I had the camera ready for that one. I'm so happy they are such good friends.





We're some lucky ducks I tell ya! I love days like this with my little family. Too bad they don't last a little longer.

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Thanksgiving


We had a fun get together with a few friends for Thanksgiving. We have been so blessed while living here to get to know sooooooo many awesome families. I don't know when it will happen, but I am sure going to miss them when we are gone from here.

That night us ladies left our kids with our sweet husbands and braved the nutty crowds. May or may not be doing that again next year. It's kind of silly just to save a few bucks. And most of it I took back a few days later anyway. ;-)
But it was fun to spend late late hours shopping with such fun friends, stand in lines for nearly 3 hours and grab some Jack in the Box on the way home, just to throw it up at 4 in the morning when I finally got back. Too bad we never found the Starbuck that Mele really wanted. ;-)

Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Study Study Study




So proud of my LCSW huband. Seen here one night standing, leaning against the bathroom door, studying the DSM4 or 5 or whatever volume they are on now. He studied and studied his butt off and his gut on. ;-) His workout routine had to take a back seat for a while. He calls it a gut, not me. I can show you show you a gut, yes-sir-ee.

But really, I am just oh so proud and excited for him, and our family and can't wait to see what adventure we'll be tackling together next, now that this one is over.

We decided to book a hotel the night before the test. He was nervous about being all the way in town so early. Too many factors getting lost, stuck in traffic....or the possibility of the Kam being shut down completely.



It was just the vacation and celebration our little family needed.



They were super excited about cable in the hotel room, and even ready to jump into ice cold water at 6pm before heading off to dinner at our favorite Waikiki local, Cha Cha Cha's.





After dinner we roamed the Waikiki strip for a little bit. We checked out over priced, fragile ornaments at Macy's. That was a little nerve racking. Then we watched the basketball man. He made a joke, "Take out your wallets, grab a few ones and give me the rest." Eden shouted at him, "You can't have my mommys wallet." Then turned to me and said, "No one takes your wallet, huh mom?" She was quite traumatized the day my wallet was stolen 4 months ago.

We also let the kids pick out a treat of their choice....bubble gum. It had a sad ending.
The kids were taking a bath, and somehow Tex's gum ended up in there from root to tip. We had to pay $4 for a small jar of peanut butter in the hotel store to get it out. Luckily, it worked and I didn't have to cut her hair which has almost recovered from the last catastrophe.



We had an awesome view and enjoyed breakfast on the Lanai. Oatmeal cooked in our kitchenette.




Then lots more cartoons while Dad was testing, and we were ready to hit that ice cold water again.

A stop for lunch at Puka Dogs after our LCSW Daddy picked us up


And a warmer pool to finish the trip off. ;-)

Congratulations love!!!!!!! We are really so proud of you.
Love,
Me

Monday, December 5, 2011

A Quiet and Simple Moment

I have a few old posts I never posted. Probably got busy doing something and forgot about them. Here is one from Feb '11.
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One of my favorite parts about being a mother, is when you get to enjoy that quiet simple moment, when a thought comes into your mind, and for a moment you experience what feels like true joy. Tonight as I was tucking Tex into bed, we weren't rushed. We just hung out, read a story, and after he drank his rice milk while I rubbed his little chubby feet. And for a moment I was consumed with the thought of where his feet will take him durring his lifetime. Some exciting, some scary, some boring....and maybe even somewhere naughty. Like right now, his chubby little feet keep carrying him out of bed. ;-)
Anyway, I just wanted to take a moment since I haven't been terribly cheesy lately, to say I love being your mom Tex, and can only imagine the places you will go. I love you so much!

Mommy

The Angels Who Showed Up When My Car Broke Down

I forgot to post this story a LOOOOOONG time ago. Like April. But, it is a good story for the family history book.

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The morning started a little rough. My Mr. and I were in a little arguement as we drove down the Kamehameha Highway headed towards his work. He was a little late, because he was waiting for me. I was feeling grumpy because it's not my fault we live an hour from town and gas costs a bajillion dollars an ounce, and I am too cheap to drive the van that far.

Anyway, after pulling over twice to make potty stops for child #1 and child #2, we finally dropped him off at work, kissed and made up. It was nice.

The kids and I headed off for an adventure, but I didn't know it was going to be one of the best days ever!

We first stopped at Ross. Apparently I needed to retail therapy. I'm pretty sure I piled my cart 2 feet above the rim with a throw pillow, new welcome mat, kitchen mat, shoes for kids, plates for me, plates and cups for kids, stuff for Eden with birthday $, and anything else my hands grabbed. Of course, before leaving we thinned it out to our most favorite 3 or 4 items and left the store with our new purchases. I checked the time and couldn't believe my kids were relatively well behaved for over an hour while their Mom meandered through isle after isle.

As a reward, we headed for McDonalds ice cream.


Our next adventure lead us the loooooong and wrong way to one of my favorite little thrift stores in Kailua. It's at a Christian private school. I discovered it just before Christmas. We headed there, got an extra booster seat for the van to tote friends kids around, an easter dress for Eden, 2 new kids cassettes to listen to in the car, oh, and that silly Barbie that cost $1...though I thought it would only be 50 cents.

We jumped back in the car. Eden and I jumped, Tex just continued sleeping. I should mention here that Tex is an AMAZING sleeper. He fell asleep before the thrift store, got out of the car with me, an was put back into his car seat....all the while SLEEEEEEPING! He's pretty awesome like that.

So, got in the car and headed on down the Pali. Next stop ZOOOO! Or so we thought. Not long after starting out on the road where there is just nowhere to stop, my power steering went out. I had heard before "if your power steering goes out, pull over asap and check something". Of course I couldn't remember what that something was, and I was kind of freaking out. "What if my brakes go out next as I am charging down this hill???!!" So, I called Jonathon 5 times in a row. He finally answered. I pulled over soon as I could, checked the belt. Verdict...there was no belt. "Great!" Went to call him back, no service, and maybe 1/20th of a battery life left.

As I sat there on the side of he road in a very hot car trying to remain calm and keep kids happy, I remembered a talk that I heard in a RS conferense a few weeks back. The talk was about how keeping a cheerful attitude will shorten your trial. I kept this in my mind as I tried getting ahold of Jonathon who was in a meeting at this time, and texted a friend of mine to get her husbands opinion. That Casey Jorgensen. He knows a lot about a lot of things. ;-) I sat on the side of the road, watching my kiddos lick the icing from the sandwich cookie I had saved earlier from their Lunchable and waited to hear from someone what I should do next. Jonathon texted "drive to where you can park and not get towed." I pulled back onto the road, and 30 seconds later received this text "Casey says, no belt no drive!" AAAAAAAhhh, I start thinking. Then Jonathon calls to tell me to find somewhere quickly. If I take too long the battery will die on me. More Aaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhh's start running through my mind.

I drive through 2 or 3 neighborhoods trying to find somewhere to park. In Hawaii, people can be quite particular about who parks in front of their house. I didn't want to tick anyone off. Of course all the streets were 10 feet wide. I finally found a spot my heart felt good about, parked the car, grabbed what I thought we would needed and headed out towards town in the middle of the noon day sun.

Eden began whining that she needed water. I had about 2 inches left in our water bottle but it was really warm from being left in the car. She didn't want it. She stopped to sit on a bus stop bench. "I can't go anymore. My legs are tired!!" I really felt for this poor little 4 year old, which was an unusual feeling for me. I feel like quite often I act like we need to be in a rush here and there, I forget that my kids have feelings that matter, and just try to foce them to do the things I want to do. But, thankfully, this day, this moment, was different. I bent down to talk to her. Our conversation went something like this

"Eden, do you remember how we said a prayer before we left our car? And we prayed that Heavenly Father would help us to be safe and to have a good day?"

"Yes"

"Do you think that he knows you are thirsty and tired?"

"Yes"

"I'm sure he will send someone our way to hep us. Maybe someone will let us get a drink from their hose. We just have to keep walking."

I explained how the people who lived in the houses around us might all be at work, and that we would just need to keep walking so that Heavenly Father could help us find the person he is sending to help us.

She got off the bench, we started walking and playing a game as we went. I spy I believe. And not too long after, a sweet Asian Auntie passed by us walking briskly our same direction.

"Excuse me. Do you know where this road leads to?"

"It can take you as far as King if that is where you need to go. But that is a long way down. Where are you trying to get to?"

I explained how our car had broken down, and that the kids were thirsty.

She had just happened to be walking back to the hospital where she works. We walked with her the next hundred yards, and she told me how to find the cafeteria, and told me I could catch Bus 13 and it would take us all the way to the Zoo!

We went into the hospital gift shop. Tex played with a frog that sang "A dream is a wish your heart makes..." which I thought was a fitting song for the moment I had just experienced. We found a water fountain, had a potty stop, and bought a pack of mentos and banana from the sweet lady in the gift shop.

After we had cooled down, emptied our bladders, and had a snack, we headed to the bus stop. A few short moments after we got there Bus 13 showed up!

We hopped on and headed for the zoo. Though it was taking a LOOOOOOOONG time to get there. By now it was alreay past 1:30.

I noticed we were nearing Wal-Mart, which was one of the places I was hoping to go to on our trip to town. I talked Eden into skipping the zoo and going to a nearby pet store. We hopped off the bus, and walked to wal-mart. We put many things in our cart. More things than I could logically carry around town with me, especially with 2kids in towe.

I ran into a friend of a friend. I thought about asking her to take my things home and I'd pick them up later, but didn't want to impose. I later saw her husband in the store, thought again about asking, but thought it would be even more strange to ask him. The kids and I went to do a little more shopping, and by this point I really wished I would have just imposed. I wandered down a few isles hoping to see her or her husband, but no luck. Shoot! I had been given proabably 4 chances, and I took none of them. We headed to the check out, and who should be in the lane next to me, but the girl I knew!
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She offered to take my things and give us a ride, but I hadn't made good on my pet store promise yet. So, I gave her my bags of goods and the kids and I walked to the mall.

We played for a while at the arcade. The pet store I was planning on taking them to was out of business. On our way out of the mall, we grabbed a bubble drink and I really wanted to check out Old Navy before catching the bus. I bought a $6 t shirt for Tex, and I never spend that kind of money on a shirt...not even for myself. But this one was just so cute, it made me happy. ;-)

We grabbed some Taco Bell and headed for the bus. By this point my cell phone was dead so I couldn't text Jonathon, but I figured he knew we were all right. We sat at the bus stop around 6 pm and got home a little after 7:15. Jonathon wasn't home and I wondered where he might be. I started getting the kids ready for bed and 10 minutes later he showed up mad that I hadn't called because he had been driving around the past 30 minutes looking for us.

Usually I would have borrowed someones cell to check in, but I really wasn't worried about it because we were all right, and our Father in Heaven had sent angels who really watched over us the entire day.

I don't remember now how we got the car back. Probably our angelic mechanic friend Casey.